ÿþ <head> <META NAME="description" CONTENT="Benefitz - Phobia practioner"> <META NAME="keywords" CONTENT="Benefitz, stephanie Fitzwilliams, Phobia, Phobias, spiders, heights, Flying, Lifts, Neuro Linguistic Programming, NLP, Thought Field Therapy, TFT, Berkshire, Surrey, Hampshire, South, England, Crowthorne, Bracknell, Wokingham, Ascot, Ascot Natural Health, psychological, issues, distres, stress, anxiety, Feel good, ANHC, Janet Thompson, Paul Mckenna, Richard bandle, fear of public speaking, dentists, needles, giving blood, blood phobia, spiders, hate spiders, spider phobia, hate flying, flying, fear of heights, chair lifts, ladders, claustrophobia, exam nerves, worry, addictions, OCD, Obsessive compulsive disorder, Effects of trauma, help with trauma, trauma"> <title>Benefitz web site</title> <title></title> </head> <html> <body style="margin:0px;"> <table width="800" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center"> <br> <tr> <td width="800" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"> <tr> <td width="800" height="15" colspan="7" valign="top"><img src="outermodule/top800.gif" alt="" width="800" height="15"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#D6D7D9"></td> <td width="9"></td> <!-- left-hand column --> <td width="800" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center"> <!-- module start --> <tr> <td width="582" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center"> <tr> <td width="800" height="46" colspan="3" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:18px; color:#69359A;"> <img src="titles/title_purple_testimonials.gif" alt="" width="580" height="46" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="6"></td> <!-- Confidence module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_anxiety.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> Mrs WK April 2011:<br><br> <img src="pictures/fearofoutside.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> I first contacted Stephanie when I was at a very low point and felt unable to cope with the stresses of my difficult family situation. I found she was very understanding, intuitive and easy to talk to  without being pushy or asking for specific details of a tricky situation.<br><br>I have found that TFT has reduced my anxiety levels hugely, and is very easy to do and follow at home.<br><br> Stephanie is always at the end of the phone or contactable to suggest a tapping sequence for an issue I may have. Learning TFT has given me a valuable tool to help cope with the stresses of everyday life.<br><br> Stephanie helped me by showing me a TFT sequence to reduce anxiety when I was responsible for organising a large recent work event. I wasn t sleeping and the worry was engulfing me all day long. I did the sequence only ONCE and all the worry and fear went away. I was amazed that such a simple, short treatment could have such huge results instantly!<br> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- confidence module end --> <!-- Insects module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_insects.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> Mrs AJ March 2011:<br> <br> <img src="pictures/mothr.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> For as long as I can remember I have been terrified of moths - so much so I would have difficulty in actually even saying the word 'moth'. To my shame in 1970 at an open air band concert in panic I dropped my baby daughter when one flew towards me.<br><br> Then last year I met Stephanie at an event where she worked her magic on me. It literally took a matter of minutes!<br><br> I have since shared my bedroom with a moth whereas before Stephanie I would have slept elsewhere if my husband wasn t around to remove it. On holiday last October in Devon a particular hairy monster flew into the kitchen and to my and everyone else s amazement I did not panic and leave the room.<br><br> The final proof - if it was needed - came last week when I actually picked up quite a large one and released it into the garden!<br> Thank you Stephanie you will probably never know just how much you have changed my life. <br><br> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- insect module end --> <!-- Public Speaking module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_speaking.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> Mrs AK December 2010:<br> <br> <img src="pictures/speakingr.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> Stephanie has helped me considerably with my fear of public speaking which is increasingly becoming a part of my job.<br><br> She was able to very quickly identify that the main part of my fear was the anticipation of the presentation and gave me a number of very useful Neuro-linguistic Programming tools to aid with that.<br><br> A Thought Field Therapy session followed which instantly relaxed me and helped me view public speaking in a very different way and in the 2 presentations at work that followed, I felt significantly more confident and less fearful. She also wrote me a tool to take away with me to use by myself so that I can reinforce those feelings of confidence and capability.<br><br> I wouldn't hesitate to approach Stephanie again should I need to tackle other fears and insecurities as I have complete confidence in her knowledge and skill.<br><br> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- Public Speaking module end --> <!-- spiders module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_spiders.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> Mrs SF May 2010:<br> <br> <img src="pictures/spiderr.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> I used to have a phobia of spiders - not very exotic I know - but now it seems to have gone.<br><br> After one treatment, I was able to touch a spider voluntarily for the first time in over 30 years! The treatment was quick, comfortable and very effective.<br><br> I am amazed by the results. The best way I can describe it, is that I can't be bothered to be bothered about the fear anymore".<br> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- Spiders module end --> <!-- salesman module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_belief.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> Mr BH March 2011:<br> <br> <img src="pictures/salesr.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> I am a salesman, and I am internally being put forward for promotion to be a sales manager - the competition is fierce. I can happily and successfully sell, but when it came to selling myself, I couldn't do it. I wasn't selling myself properly.<br><br> I came to Stephanie for help for my impending interview. She very quickly recognized through careful questioning, and through powerful NLP techniques, that I needed to focus on the core of what was important. I had been getting muddled and bogged down with peripheral worries instead of focussing on the all-important issues.<br><br> Suddenly everything made sense and had a place! Consequently - I believe - I walked into my interview with a clear head and belief in what I had to say - and am now on the fast-track program for management!<br><br> These visualization techniques really work and learning some NLP skills is totally new to me - and to be frank, didn't think would be my cup of tea - but what a pleasant and rewarding surprise!"<br><br> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- salesman module end --> <!-- needle module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_needles.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> <br> <img src="pictures/needler.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> Awaiting customers promised testimonial- text to be added on next upload </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- needle module end --> <!-- Height module start --> <tr> <td width="750" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"> <tr> <td width="750" height="61" colspan="8" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:15px; color:#000000;"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_heights.gif" alt="Link to Intersting Blogs" width="750" height="61" style="display:block;"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="6" bgcolor="#EDF6E7"></td> <td width="250" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:11px; color:#262626;"> <br> <img src="pictures/heights2r.gif" </td> <td width="500" valign="top" style="font-family:tahoma, arial, sans-serif; font-size:12px; color:#262626;"> Awaiting customers promised testimonial- text to be added on next upload </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#CCD3C6"></td> <td width="10" bgcolor="#E0E1E2"></td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#C9C6D0"></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="750" height="24" colspan="8" valign="bottom"> <img src="modulebox/long_module_btm.gif" alt="" width="750" height="24" style="display:block;"> <tr> </tr> <tr> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="10" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="6" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="157" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> <td width="1" height="15" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <!-- Height module end --> <tr> <td width="800" height="15" colspan="4" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> </table></td> <td width="11"></td> </table> </td> <td width="1" bgcolor="#D6D7D9"></td> </tr> <td width="800" valign="top"><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#F2E7FC"> <tr> <td width="800" height="15" colspan="7" valign="top"><img src="outermodule/btm800.gif" alt="" width="800" height="15"></td> </tr> <tr> </tr> </table></td> </tr> </table> </tr> </table> </body> </html>